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There is a Swinger in all of us


All of us want to be successful as swingers.  Be Friendly. Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.


Cleanliness. Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or un-fresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. It is amazing what time to drive somewhere, stop for a bite, or whatever, can do or rather UNDO.  


Don’t Be Pushy. If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation.


How And Why To Say No. One of the basic etiquette's in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, can however lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain. If you try to join in a group already playing, be aware that the person may not be in a position to say No. In these circumstances watch body language - if the person you touch pulls away, they mean don't touch, your persistence will be unwelcome. If the person responds positively then join in and enjoy.


Alcohol Or Drugs. Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.


Smoking. Smoking or ecigarettes are not permitted within the building, just outside of the kitchen lobby doors is the designated smoking area.


Recording Devices. No CAMERAS or other recording devices are permitted.


Practise Safer Sex. It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhoea, aids, yeast infection, etc.., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone who wishes to provide you both with protection.  


Privacy. We do have private room’s for those couple's who may be a little shy or prefer to be on their own. We provide this facility free of charge but ask that couples remember that there may be another couple on the premises who have the same feelings so please if you do use this room please be fair and don't keep the room to yourself for the whole duration of the evening.


Enjoy Yourself. Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude...


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